In almost infinite ways, we are reminded and taught how to approach conflict and daily battles….we have books, blogs, elders…
But not until we face them head on do we get the lessons instilled in us…
The low flow of clients this morning had my thoughts rambling and mug after mug of tea….what with the weather being a bit cooler than normal….
How do you handle conflict? Both internal and external? How do you handle battles? It depends on the kind you’re facing really. But does it leave you better or bitter…?
There are things that I consider though.: the approach. Honesty. Being firm. Quiet time.
Bottom line is : avoid unnecessary drama. It’s never worth it. Trust me.
It’s better to choose the peace. You’re far much better not fighting some things. And with quiet time you can know how to handle the situation at hand.
Many people always think this approach is rather cowardly but I don’t think so…
“Choose your battles wisely. After all, life isn’t measured by how many times you stood up to fight. It’s not winning battles that makes you happy, but it’s how many times you turned away and chose to look into a better direction. Life is too short to spend it on warring. Fight only the most, most, most important ones, let the rest go…….”

C. JoyBell C.
How do you fight your battles…?